Overcoming Impostor Syndrome

Jewell H. Dionisio

Do you want to overcome impostor syndrome and experience increased self-confidence, improvement in relationships and work performance?  Read on for valuable tips!

What is Impostor Syndrome?

Impostor syndrome is a feeling of not deserving to be where you are in life. It's when you feel like an impostor, as if any minute now people will realize that it was all a mistake and that you don't belong here after all.
It's often experienced by high-achieving individuals who have been successful in their careers or other areas of life, but who can't internalize their success as being due to their own abilities and talents. Instead, they attribute it to luck or other external factors such as the help from others along the way (which makes them feel guilty).


The symptoms of impostor syndrome include:

  • Feeling like your achievements were undeserved; thinking about how easily someone else could have done what you did better than yourself
  • Feeling like people are going to find out that you're not as good at your job/accomplishments/etc., so therefore must work harder than everyone else so no one notices this fact about yourself


The Impact of Impostor Syndrome

Impostor syndrome can have a serious impact on your mental health, as well as your work performance and relationships. It can make you feel like you don't belong or are not good enough to be where you are. You may feel like other people will find out that you're not as smart or capable as they think, so it's important to seek help if this is happening for you.


Tips for Overcoming Impostor Syndrome

  • Identify and challenge negative thoughts.
  • Set realistic goals.
  • Build a support system that can help you through the tough times, so you don't feel like an impostor all the time!


Self-Care Strategies for Managing Impostor Syndrome

Self-care strategies for managing impostor syndrome include:

  • Practicing mindfulness. Mindfulness is a technique that allows you to be in the moment and aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgement. It can help you gain perspective on situations that cause you stress or anxiety, so that you can respond more effectively to them instead of being overwhelmed by them.
  • For example, if someone tells you that they think your work isn't good enough, instead of automatically believing their opinion as fact and feeling like an impostor (which would only make matters worse), try responding with "That's interesting! Tell me more about why." This way, even if they are right about something being wrong with your project or idea--and there may be some things worth improving--you'll have time to reflect before making any big changes based on their feedback alone.


Seeking Professional Help

If you're suffering from impostor syndrome, it can be helpful to seek professional help. You may want to see a therapist or join a support group that focuses on this issue. If you have insurance and are looking for someone who specializes in impostor syndrome, there are some great resources online that can help you find one near you.
If those options don't work out for some reason (or if they do), there are other ways of getting help:

  • Medication: Some people find that taking medication helps them manage their anxiety about being an "impostor" or being exposed as one by others. Again though, this should only be done under the guidance of professionals who know what medications work best for each person's specific situation and symptoms.*


How to Support Someone With Impostor Syndrome

If you're supporting someone with impostor syndrome, there are a few things you can do to help them feel more confident and less anxious.


First, listen without judgement. It can be hard for people who experience impostor syndrome to open up about their feelings because they fear being judged by others. If someone does share that they have feelings of fraudulence or self-doubt, try not to judge them for it--remember that everyone has moments where they doubt themselves!


Secondly, provide encouragement and recognize successes whenever possible: "I know how hard it was for me when I started working at this company; I think we all feel like frauds sometimes."


Finally, remember that everyone experiences setbacks from time to time; don't let one setback define your entire career trajectory!



Common Misconceptions About Impostor Syndrome

  • Impostor syndrome is not a disorder. It's a feeling that many people experience, but it doesn't mean you have a mental illness or are in any way defective.
  • Impostor syndrome is not limited to certain groups of people--it affects all kinds of people from all walks of life and at every level of their careers, including CEOs and managers as well as entry-level employees.
  • Impostor syndrome can be overcome by learning more about it and developing strategies for dealing with it when it happens (which will help you feel less anxious).


The Benefits of Overcoming Impostor Syndrome

The benefits of overcoming impostor syndrome are numerous, and they can be felt in many areas of your life. Here are just a few:

  • Increased self-confidence
  • Improved relationships with others
  • Better work performance


How to Stay Motivated During Treatment

The best way to stay motivated during treatment is by setting achievable goals and tracking your progress. You can also reward yourself for each small success, no matter how big or small it may seem.
When you're going through treatment, it's easy to get overwhelmed by the amount of work ahead of you. But if you break up your goal into smaller steps that are easier to manage on a daily basis, then those feelings will go away quickly
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Conclusion

  • Impostor syndrome is a feeling of not being good enough, or that you don't belong.
  • It's normal to feel like this sometimes, but if it's interfering with your life, there are ways to overcome it.
  • The first step is acknowledging and accepting that you have impostor syndrome. Then, try these strategies:
    -Reach out for help when you need it; don't be afraid to ask questions or seek guidance from others who have more experience than you do in the area where you're struggling.
    -Celebrate small wins--even if they seem insignificant at first glance! Acknowledge yourself for accomplishing something difficult and keep going!


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